What wives want from their husbands
A compactible and peaceful couple is usually a pleasant sight to behold. Everytime. However, for most married men, pleasing their wives is one of the most difficult things to do because they see it as a complicated enterprise.
‘What do women really want’? is a question that has become a means of expressing that complicated enterprise.
Over the years events have shown that men who have learned the art of knowing what their wives love, expect and want from them, and then do same or try their best, are already living in paradise.
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Today’s Home Front with Ayaba Philips brings you the salient things women want and expect from their husbands.
Wives naturally love faithful husbands
For most women, a cheating spouse is a deal breaker. And they will file for divorce if they find out their husband is cheating. That is why till date May Yul Edochie has refused to be numbered.
No woman wants to share her man with others, except if he is an Oba, Ooni or a billionaire career politician like Ned Nwkolo and actress Regina.
However, a cheating and philandering spouse isn’t a deal breaker for some women especially when financial security is involved.
Wives love men who support their dreams
Women expect their husbands to give them wings to fly and support their dreams and aspirations, not the ones that suppress their ambition with undue control.
Therefore, an insecure man would always be a ‘burden’ for a wife.
However, today’s realities and education make most men desirous of a woman that is an asset and not just to birth and cook.
Wives love attention
Another thing that wives want is a man who is not too busy to have time for them. However busy a man is, every wife wants and expects her husband to give her all the attention.
Now when we say attention, it doesn’t mean just being there physically. You need to be there for your wife emotionally and mentally too.
No matter how strong or successful a wife is, she needs to feel wanted. And attention is one way to show that. It also breeds romance, which is a good ingredient to nourish a marriage.
Women love surprise gifts
Another thing that wives want are surprise gifts. When I say surprise gift, I do not mean very expensive. You will be surprised what a pair of panties can do to woman’s heart.
Well, if you can buy a Ferrari, why not. It all depends on the financial capacity of the man. The most important thing is get her a surprising gift every now and then. Receiving gifts from their husbands makes wives feel very special.
Giving gifts should not be limited to special events like wedding anniversaries, birthday celebrations or childbirth.
Financial security
Women love it when their husbands provide them with financial security. Any security is good for a couple. But financial security is vital.
Every wife, no matter how financially independent she is, wants her husband to provide that financial and social security.
We will stop here for today. But know this: if you do not meet her needs, especially these basic ones, another person — best friend, colleague, ex or a sharp guy — can meet them. Wahala don start be dat o.